When I can't stop worrying about the future
I am talking about moments, when the future does not seems bright. I am not talking about fatal, life threatening situations, for this, please go and consult an expert. I am talking about these moments, when nothing seems to work, or you are afraid of the future, feeling worried, with no idea how to dig yourself out of the figurative hole you are in. And the hole seems deep. And the situation seems complicate. But what if there is a possibility, just a possibility, to alleviate all this? When you ask? Maybe now? Unless you feel too attached to feeling lost about the future, and want to let it linger just a tad longer. But, for the moment, why not try this?
We all heard about mindfulness, meditation, and other mind practices. But did you notice that people who are successful, start with an overwhelming sensation, they have some bodily sensation accompanying this, and they end up with quiet mind, and a quieter body. But what if the body is completely quiet? The same quiet you have sitting in front of the ocean, or in front of a beautiful nature?
One of the simplest ways to deal with it, is right now, locate when there is a bodily sensation less than perfect. Maybe a feeling of queasiness in the stomach, in the chest, some tightening of the shoulder, whatever you can find, and just relax it, yes, simply relax it, and more, let yourself tell it to relax it, and do it again, and more, and as you continue it relaxes even more, until you eventually feel what? The mind, the mind starts to be quieter.
You just started changing your body with your attention. Nothing else. And this is only the beginning.
We have so much more control than we think. For over 15 years I have not taken any pain killer, how? By following methods, that are simple, yet powerful, and I am going to share many of them with you. Try this. Let me know how it goes.
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Sometimes this helps on your own, but the worry keeps coming back — or you can feel there’s further to go, and you’d rather not go alone.
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I'm not a doctor or therapist. This is a simple practice I've used for years, shared as my own experience — not medical or psychological advice.